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A Book Lover’s Guide to Reading More While Owning Less

Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from M.C. Starbuck of Living Tiny, Dreaming Big.

I love books. I love reading them. I love writing them.

I love just looking at them or holding them in my hands.

I even took a book with me on my first five dates with my husband in case he got boring.

And what better excuses to hoard books than an English degree and an occupation as an author?

I balked when I first heard Marie Kondo’s suggestion that 30 books is a good amount to own. I didn’t even think 100 was enough. 

How many do I have now? If I counted correctly, I personally own 85 at the moment. That includes cookbooks, books I’ve written, my childhood Bible, and a Greek lexicon. It does not include the stack of 20 more books I’ve already read and am getting rid of. Either way, I no longer have 500… nor the weight that went along with them.

Throughout my process of downsizing books, I had four categories:

• Definitely Keep: books I would read in the next five years
• Not Right Now: books I’ve had interest in but aren’t on the top of my list
• Special Copies: books signed by the author, containing a note from a friend, or with comments and highlights of passages I want to remember
• Decorative Books: books that are beautiful and bring me joy when on display

The majority of the books I got rid of were from the Not Right Now category. After I read the Definitely Keep books, I was much quicker to get rid of them once I’d enjoyed the benefits of owning fewer books. I got rid of a few Special Copies as explained in the steps below.

8 Steps to Reading More While Owning Less

1. Calculate how many books you plan to read in the next three to five years. This allows you to make a realistic calculation of how many books you should keep.

When I first did this, I wanted to cry. It was the saddest realization that there’s no way possible for me to read all the books I want to read before I die. At the time, I read about 20 books a year. Even if I kept five years worth of reading, that would only be 100 books. Why was I keeping 500? At the rate I was reading, 500 books would have taken me 25 years! I would be a vastly different person by then, with different books on my Definitely Keep list.

2. Make a list of the books you most want to read right now. Since you can only read so many books in your lifetime, start with the ones you’re most excited about!

You probably already own some of them. Pull those aside and put them in your Definitely Keep pile. Check your Amazon cart, Kindle, or Audible for other books you might already own and want to read. The total number on this list should not be more than the number you realistically think you can read in the next five years, as determined by step one.

3. Create a pile of books you could easily and affordably buy again if you’d like. Examine the books not in your Definitely Keep pile. Look them up on Amazon to see if you could buy them again at a decent price later. Or see if your library has a copy. This makes parting with these books so much easier!

At this point, you can avoid giving away what I call Special Copies: old books from your grandma, signed copies, or pricey editions. For now, only get rid of books you can replace if you start to miss them. If you’re anything like me, in five years you will have found at least 50 new books you want to read. You will have long forgotten the ones you’re getting rid of now.

4. Keep a list of the books that are hardest to part with. I know it feels like you’re parting with your babies. This step is important for those of us who are still afraid we might be making a decision we would regret later.

What if it was gonna be my next favorite book? Or maybe a friend recommended it and you don’t want to let them down. You might want to give it a chance after you’ve finished your current stack of favorites.

These are your Not Right Now books. Remember, you aren’t completely ruling them out. But you aren’t going to allow them to take up precious space in your home. Add these books to your Amazon “save for later” or wish list so you can rest in knowing you won’t forget them once you’ve finished reading the books on your Definitely Keep books. Pack up your copies of these Not Right Now books, and get ready to remove them from your home.

5. Look for a used bookstore nearby and trade in your books. (If you don’t have a used bookstore, simply donate your Not Right Now books and move on to the next step.)

I hardly ever recommend selling items because it’s too much time and work and not enough reward. But stores like 2nd & Charles (previously Books-A-Million) make it easy. Simply take your books to their store. They will sort through your books while you browse rows and rows of bookshelves, then they’ll tell you how much money or store credit they will give you.

You could potentially trade five books you no longer want to read for one of the books that’s on your list to read in the next five years. Many used bookstores sell new books, too, and may give you full or partial credit towards those items. You don’t even have to spend the credit that day. Just go back after you find out what your book club is reading next. This helps you feel like you aren’t throwing away money.

I’ve gotten over $200 total in store credit just from books. It encourages me to get rid of books as I read them, too, because then I can use the credit from that book to put towards the next book on my list. Plus, a used bookstore is a great way for your beloved books to be cherished after you part with them! Even if they can’t sell them, they will usually donate them for you if you’d like to save the trouble of making another stop to drop them off somewhere else.

6. Take pictures of what makes your Special Copies special. Once you’ve seen how great getting rid of books can be, it’s time to get rid of some that you’ve already read and enjoyed. These books may have significant meaning to you but will still serve you better once they’re gone.

I kept some of my books through many rounds of decluttering simply because I wanted to remember one or two pages and the notes I made in the margins. I also kept books to loan to other people, but I realized I never actually loaned them out. I usually ended up just recommending the book or mailing them a new copy because they don’t live nearby.

Keeping a picture of the book helps solve both of those problems. You could even do that for a book that a friend or author wrote a note in for you. Once you’ve taken the pictures, it’s easier to let the books go. Pack them up so they’re ready to go on your next trip to drop off donations or do some trade-ins.

7. Give e-books and audiobooks a chance. If you already enjoy them, try using them even more.

When I moved to South Korea, I suddenly had a much smaller selection of English books available to me. That’s when I really gave the Kindle app and even Audible a fair chance. Does it replace my love for paperbacks? Nope! But it’s an additional way to enjoy books.

I realized I was “reading” so much online anyway through Facebook. The book lover in me would much rather spend that time reading a book even if it’s also on my phone. That simple change in my mentality helped me go from reading 23 books a year to 46! I learned to love the experience of reading on Kindle in a different way. I didn’t believe my friend when she told me the same thing years ago! Don’t make the same mistake I did.

8. Utilize the library. Remember that place?! This is a great way to surround yourself with all the books and book lovers!

They probably won’t even look at you weird if you smell the books. You can donate your Not Right Now pile to them if you don’t have a used bookstore or if your books are in terrible shape. My library uses damaged books to make crafts for book lovers! While the library doesn’t pay you for them, they also don’t charge you to check out a book. They often have a great selection of audiobooks and access to e-books, if you want to try them out for free.

Life with Less Than 100 Books

It’s been over four years since I first started downsizing my book collection. I can hardly believe I haven’t regretted it one bit.

I’ve yet to have the desire to repurchase a single book I got rid of. I’m too busy enjoying books that are more relevant to me at this time in my life.

I no longer feel guilty about all the poor, neglected books I own that I’m not reading. By hoarding them, I was keeping others from reading them, too. Instead, I now have small, cozy stacks of books intentionally placed throughout my home on beautiful display. Otherwise, my books are limited to a few small shelves shared with my husband—instead of three large shelves just for me.

A few books are more inviting than hundreds calling my name. Reading is even more of a pleasure now. Along with the feeling of accomplishment from finishing a book, I have the excitement of choosing the next book I can’t wait to read… rather than one I simply feel obligated to read because it’s been on my shelf for years.

May your love of books also be increased by owning fewer of them.

***

M. C. Starbuck is the author of Packrat to Clutter-Free. She blogs at Living Tiny, Dreaming Big where she provides simple ideas to make room for what matters most. You can also find her on Facebook.

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Busyness is Laziness

Of all the distractions that keep us from living a fulfilled life, the most prevalent in our world today may be busyness.

Possessions and property and the desire for wealth all come to mind, but the greatest distraction of them all may be busyness—it seems to transcend every social class.

I was struck recently by a quote from Søren Kierkegaard concerning the danger of living a fast-paced, hectic lifestyle. Over 150 years ago, he said it like this:

Of all ridiculous things the most ridiculous seems to me, to be busy—to be a man who is brisk about his food and his work… What, I wonder, do these busy folks get done?”

I have found his words to be true in my own life. Being busy does not result in fulfillment and meaning. Being busy may mean more things are getting done… but they are often the wrong things.

A busy life is an unexamined life. And an unexamined life is rarely worth living.

I learned this lesson many years ago when I was forced to slow down in college because of a unique course assignment. We were required to spend 1 hour per week, alone in a room with our thoughts. There was to be no music, no books, no meditation guides, no technology, no thought aids whatsoever. Instead, we were to sit quietly and allow our minds to focus wherever our hearts took us.

The practice was difficult at first, but eventually turned out to be one of the most significant assignments and practices of my entire college life.

The hour of solitude did not result in papers being written, homework being turned in, books being read, tests being studied for, or to-do items being checked off. It didn’t result in the usual busywork being completed. Quite the contrary, it resulted in deep life reflection about the trajectory of my life, the person I was becoming, and whether I even wanted that to be true of me.

It is why, I think, when I first read Kierkegaard’s quote, it resonated so deeply within me. Busyness may keep us rushing from project to project, place to place, or appointment to appointment, but what really are we accomplishing with these hectic schedules?

Rarely does busyness result in the most important work of our lives being completed. It most often just distracts us from it.

I experienced a very humbling moment yesterday. I ran into a friend—a good friend who is battling cancer. And it occurred to me, as soon as I saw him, that I had not spoken with him for over two weeks. Not a phone call, not a text, not a single inquiry into his health. My friend is facing the greatest struggle of his life… and I didn’t even think to check in with him.

Reasons quickly surfaced in my head to excuse my lack of thoughtfulness. I would have checked in, but “I’ve been traveling out of town most of the past week,” “I’m launching this really big project next month,” “I’ve been so busy with so-and-so and this-and-that, it’s understandable that my friend never crossed my mind.”

This, you see, is what busyness does to us. It prevents us from remaining focused on the most important work that we need to do.

Busyness crowds out self-reflection. It keeps our mind and feet always scurrying from one thing to another and never allows us to sit quietly in our thoughts to determine if the next opportunity is even something we should be engaging in.

As Blaise Pascal once said, “All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.”

A busy life is an unexamined life. And an unexamined life is rarely worth living. It may be full, but it is rarely fulfilling.

It should be noted, of course, that this does not mean we will not go through busy seasons of life. Every new parent knows there are busy seasons in life. Every college student knows there are busy seasons during a semester. And almost every worker in the world knows there are heightened periods of busyness as deadlines come and go.

I am not saying there is no space for busy seasons. But a busy season is different from a busy life. If you find yourself racing about season after season after season, constantly chasing who-knows-what, you may want to ask yourself if you are finding enough time for meditation and solitude and self-reflection.

In this regard, some have even begun equating busyness with laziness. It is not laziness as we typically define the term, but it can still be a form of it. If our rushing about from one activity to another distracts us from self-reflection, or even worse, the important work that we should be taking up with our lives, it may indeed be a form of laziness—at the very least, it produces the same result.

I am challenged by the words of Søren Kierkegaard. His thoughts on how busyness may be preventing us from important work ring true—especially in our modern culture.

How many regrets have I heard from others who spent too much time working to be present with their family? How many times have I turned the other way from helping another (or simply calling a friend) because of the commitments on my calendar? And how many days have I let pass without focused self-reflection?

In each case, it may be asked, where does busyness get us? What exactly does it allow us to get done? And how might we be using it as a shield from the deeper work required of us?

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Encouraging Simplicity. Weekend Reads.

Never underestimate the importance of removing stuff you don’t need.

Encouragement provides us with motivation to persevere. It invites us to dream dreams of significance for our lives. And it begs us to work diligently with optimism and promise.

Overcoming the pull of consumerism is a difficult challenge regardless of our stage in life. Simplicity requires encouragement. To that end, I hope you will find motivation in these articles below.

Each post was intentionally chosen to inspire simplicity in your life. For maximum effect, find a quiet moment this weekend and enjoy them with a fresh cup of coffee or tea.

How to Create Gratitude | Raptitude by David Cain. This thing you have—this meal, this bed, these clothes, this friend—if it’s possible to have it, it’s possible not to have it.

Lessons from the ancient philosophers to help improve our lives today | The Guardian by Marie Robert. We are meant to have desires and should worry less, said Aristotle, while Epicurus cautioned that most of the stuff we think we want won’t make us happy.

When Minimizing Was The Only Option | No Sidebar by Cheryl Smith. The time of unemployment that began that night ended up stretching out for 21 months.

Cut Through Addictions & Distractions: Feel the Discomfort & Uncertainty | Zen Habits by Leo Babauta. Our lives are pervaded with addictions and distractions.

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How I Learned to Declutter My Mind

Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Deanna Broaddus of Recovering Women Wealth.

For most of my life, my headspace has been filled with negative self-talk and lies. The tapes that would play over and over in my head went something like this:

• You’ll never be good enough.
• Why can’t you be perfect?
• You are going to mess things up.
• You are worthless and unworthy.
• When will you grow up and learn?
• No one likes you.
• He thinks you’re stupid.

It was a heavy burden to carry. Worse yet, I could go on and on.

Growing up, my emotional security was scarce and my self-hatred was plentiful.

As I write these words, I realize how blessed I am that I almost don’t recognize that girl anymore. The road I’ve taken to trade in that garment of heaviness for one of joy and praise has been the most important journey of my life.

First Things First

As the brain fog of addiction started to lift in early sobriety, I made a vow to unearth the roots of what led me here.

How did I end up to be a full blown addict in my 30’s? Why did I allow myself to be treated so harshly by men? And where did that little girl go who had a big ‘ol bucket full of dreams? I didn’t know, but I would do whatever it took to find out.

Unfortunately, one is not typically willing to embark on such a soul-searching journey unless there has been deep pain. My bottom was a very dark and lonely place. At the end of my rope I had a vision and was faced with the stark reality that my choices were:

1. Insanity
2. Death
3. Surrender

I clung to the only possible hope I had and fell to my knees.

Early sobriety was challenging and full of confusion and depression. Fortunately, I put myself in places to learn that it could also be full of hope.

As I heard story after story of people who found joy in recovery, I started to believe it could be true for me as well.

Create a List

I knew I had deep work to do to discover what led me here. I knew it would stem back to painful memories and wounds of my past. But it became very clear that I would not become free of the Groundhog Day of my life until I was able to face that past. I had to learn to forgive, see my part, make amends, and release resentments.

I needed to declutter my mind of those old familiar tapes which were not serving me.

Taking a fearless and searching moral inventory of one’s life is an exercise in many recovery programs. However, anyone can do it. The basic premise is to identify all of the people who have hurt you in some fashion.

Then you run each person or scenario through the following questions:

• How were you hurt?
• What area of your life was affected?
• What was your part and/or the role you played? (not that you deserved what happened to you, but how did you develop unhealthy coping skills?)
• Name some character defects you displayed.
• What were the lies you believed in the process?

I can guarantee, if you do this exercise for every single person you’ve ever had resentment against, a pattern will emerge.

It did for me and I didn’t like what I saw.

Identifying the Root

Once I could see how I often reacted out of self-pity, anger, or rage, I could see how I always ended up in the same types of relationships. I was playing out the same drama/trauma that scarred me as a little girl.

It’s not that I had a horrible childhood. In many ways, it was a great childhood but my family had some dysfunction, not unlike many other families—perhaps you can relate.

My relationship with my father was volatile growing up. He was often stressed and had a temper and many times I was on the receiving end of that temper. While I craved the love and affection of my father, I rarely got it. And because I rarely got it, I began to rebuke it and rebel on the occasions I did receive it.

I looked for my self-worth in a whole host of things outside of myself which ultimately led me to drinking, drugging, and relationships with men similar to my father.

What was the real issue? For me, I needed the love of a father.

Identifying the Wounds of Our Past

If I was going to declutter my mind of negative self-talk and lies, identifying the wounds of my past was an essential step. It is for all of us.

If we don’t identify ways in our past where we developed unhealthy coping skills, find the courage to heal and forgive, and learn new coping mechanisms, we all can be subject to reacting out of the wounds of our past.

A good identifier can be if something or someone triggers a big emotion in you, you might want to step back and ask yourself several questions:

• Does this emotion feel familiar?
• Is there anyone from your formative years who also incited this emotion? If yes, who and in what situations?

I’ve learned that male authority figures can trigger wounds of my past stemming back to my relationship with my dad. As I learned from two phenomenal authors, Kay and Milan Yerkovich, we all have historical data from which we react. It’s what we do with it that can set us apart.

Develop Strategies

This final step is crucial because we can all be triggered.

Let’s take one of my former styles as an example. In the past, when there was yelling and/or a conflict, I would run to my room and hide. I’d bury my head in my pillow and cry.

I now know that conflict can cause me to want to take flight. One of my current strategies is to stay and remind myself of what I can control and not control. I have learned for me, by centering myself through prayer in the midst of the conflict, my fear dissipates. It has become my most important strategy. Yours may be different.

Of course, there is an appropriate time to walk away from conflict, but there are also times when it’s important to stay.

When you premeditate strategies for your typical emotional reactions, you begin to create new patterns in your life. 

The more you do this, the more the resentments of your past will melt away. Furthermore, you’ll stop attracting new ones.

I’ve learned that my earthly father could only give me what he had received. As a women of faith, I have a heavenly Father whose love is boundless. And through this faith, I’ve found the courage to form a healthy relationship with my dad.

Your exact journey may be different than mine, but this is the process that helped me declutter my mind of negativity:

1. Create a list.
2. Identify the root.
3. Develop strategies.

The work I mentioned is what has allowed me to embrace a minimalist mindset. I’m able to go forward into situations with less baggage.

My spirit is open and teachable. Yours can be too.

***

Deanna Broaddus recently celebrated 10 years of sobriety. She speaks publicly about her testimony, helps women in recovery, and writes at her blog, Recovering Women Wealth. You can also find her on Instagram.

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The Problem with Turning Your House into a Toy Store

“I just don’t know what to do, Joshua. He never seems happy.” This statement by my friend grabbed my attention and I sat up straighter in my chair.

My friend is a few years older than me and, financially speaking, more successful in every way: more income, more cars, bigger house, more toys.

We were enjoying some wonderful food at a downtown restaurant and talking about marriage and parenting. At some point, our conversation turned to his elementary-aged son.

My friend’s face was showing visible frustration. “I don’t understand. He has a whole drawer full of video games, a bedroom full of action figures, and a whole entire room in our house completely dedicated to toys. But he never seems happy. He’s constantly telling me he’s bored.”

His attention began to shift. As is so often the case when it comes to parenting, he began thinking about his own childhood.

“When I was young,” he said, “my family didn’t have anything. I mean, Joshua, we were super poor. I only had three toys to play with, and I shared them with my three brothers. But we made do with what we had—and we had lots of fun. I don’t ever remember asking my parents to buy me stuff.”

I was ready with my response to this. I had spent years thinking about this topic and had considered the topic when writing Clutterfree with Kids.

“Maybe your son is discontent because he has too many toys,” I told him.

“Think about it this way. When you were young, you only had three toys. But more importantly, you knew that wasn’t going to change. You had three, that’s it. You were forced to make do with what you had and find happiness in it. That was your only choice.”

My friend was nodding, so I continued:

“Your son, on the other hand, is in a completely different circumstance. Whenever he wants something new, whether it be from a commercial or something his friend gets, he just asks for it and then he gets it. You allow him to keep looking for happiness in the next toy, the next game, the next purchase. Heck, you practically encourage it.

Maybe if he was required to find happiness in the toys he already has, he just might find it. But for now, he is able to live under the impression that the next toy is going to bring it.”

My friend’s face grew sadder because he knew that what I was saying was true. His own decisions were contributing greatly to the unhealthy relationship his son had formed with possessions.

This is a reminder all of us parents need: our kids need boundaries!

If we don’t give them a sense of how much is too much, they’ll just keep wanting more. And if we let them grow up without considering the downsides of overaccumulation, we could be dooming them to repeat the errors of excess that are so common in our world today.

Don’t you want to spare your kids the bondage that comes with having too much stuff? Start early to teach them that less is more! It’s one of the best ways you can show them your love.

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Someone Has More Than You. Get Used To It.

I write these words for everyone in the world except for one person. This post is for the 7.52 billion people who are not the richest person in the world. In other words, Jeff Bezos, if you are reading, this is not for you.

To everyone else, I have some news:

Someone in the world has more than you, get used to it.

I once read a fascinating statistic about millionaires who lost their wealth. A survey was conducted of people who once had a net worth of $2 million, but now are worth less than $1 million. When asked how they lost half their fortune, 40% responded, “We started hanging out with people worth $10 million, and we lost our money trying to match their spending.”

The study, which I read years and years ago, has always stuck with me. It reveals an important truth:

There is always going to be someone in the world with more than you and trying to keep up with them is a losing battle. Because there will always be someone else ahead of you in the game.

• There is a co-worker in your office who has more than you.
• There is a neighbor down the street who has more than you.
• Someone at your church or community group has more than you.
• There is a family at your kid’s school who has more than you.
• And we all know there is someone on television right now who has more than you.

That is always going to be the case (except for you Jeff).

Now, it seems to me there are only a couple of responses we can have to this reality:

1. We get jealous and envious and bitter that someone has more.

2. We accept it and decide to find happiness with what we have.

The clear choice for a joyful and happy life is #2.

But too often, we choose #1.

As a result, we spend much our time comparing our things to other people. We compare the size of our house, the year of our automobile, the brand of our clothing, our last vacation destination, the age of our retirement, or our paycheck with the person next to us.

Unfortunately, there is no joy to be found in these comparisons. Ever. Because there is always going to be someone with more.

There is no contentment to be found in comparing our stuff with other people. You may think that once you own a fancy house or nice car like so-and-so, you’ll be happy. But that’s simply not the case because there is always going to be someone else to compare yourself to… always a bigger house, a more prestigious neighborhood, or a fancier model car to own.

There is no end to the comparison game. There is always, always going to be someone in the world with more.

I fear making sweeping generalizations, but I am going to for the sake of argument.

If you are reading these words, your needs are met. You have clothes and food and shelter.

You may not have the most expensive clothes in the world, you may not eat at the fanciest restaurants, and you may not live in the biggest house on your block. But your needs are being met.

In fact, I may take this moment to declare another truth. Not only is there someone in this world with more than you, there is someone in this world with less than you.

There is someone in this world with less than you who is perfectly content and happy because they have chosen to be happy right where they are, rather than comparing their lives to someone with more.

There is someone in the world with more than you. But you have many reasons to be grateful. And you have everything you need to find happiness. So stop comparing.

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Oscars 2020: Julia Butters, 10, brings her own turkey sandwich

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The 53-year-old actor took home the trophy at the awards ceremony, which was held on the beach in Santa Monica, for his work in 'Uncut Gems', and used his acceptance speech to poke fun.

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Leslie Jones abstains from voting for most Oscar categories due to lack of black nominees in 2020

Leslie Jones called out the Academy Awards and abstained from voting for most categories due to a lack of black nominees in 2020. The actress only voted in categories that included people of color.

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Vanessa Bryant shares video of daughter Capri learning to stand...after loss of Kobe and Gianna

In a rare break from grief, Vanessa Bryant took to her Instagram on Saturday to share her and Kobe's youngest daughter, seven-month-old Capri, attempting to stand on her own for the first time.

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Cats, Rambo, and A Madea Family Funeral score the most Razzie nominations as worst films of 2019

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Steve Harvey's stepdaughter Lori has bag stolen, tussles with carjacker in Atlanta parking garage

The 23-year-old LA Model was getting something out of the trunk of her 2020 Rolls-Royce Cullinan when a young black man jumped in the driver's seat

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Actor and comedian Orson Bean, 91, dies tragically after being struck by a car in Los Angeles

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Pamela Anderson's marriage to Jon Peters was 'called off by over TEXT MESSAGE'

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Inspiring Simplicity. Weekend Reads.

Fill your life with stories to tell, not stuff to show.

The simplicity/minimalism movement is a beautiful community. And I enjoy any opportunity to promote writing that encourages people to live more by owning less.

So fix yourself a nice warm cup of coffee or tea. Find a quiet moment this weekend. And enjoy some encouraging words to inspire more simplicity in your life today.

Too Nice for the Likes of Us: Why Buying Fancy Stuff Makes Us Miserable | The Guardian by Adrienne Matei. Luxury purchases should make us feel like a million bucks but impostor syndrome is at work even while we’re shopping

Enough | pjrvs by Paul Jarvis. Exterior mindfulness (some call it minimalism) only works when we solve for enough.

Most of Your Stuff Is Worthless :: 3 Things You Should Be Doing NOW to Reduce What You Own | Dallas Moms Collective by Siobhan Kratovil. Most of the stuff in your house is worthless. Yes, even the stuff you worry the most about, the stuff you think is so good you don’t use it for fear of breaking it, has little to no resale value. 

Minimalist Fashion | The Minimalists. Joshua Fields Millburn & Ryan Nicodemus chat with Courtney Carver about her new book: Project 333.

Simple Living. The Earlier, the Better. | Joshua Becker on YouTube

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💻 How These Smart Job Seekers Used Blogging To Find Jobs

A long list of people explain how blogging for job seekers is a strategy that works.

Photo by Stephen Leonardi

In the past, I’ve told you how I regularly receive job offers because of what I’ve done here with JobMob, and a big part of that success comes from having done the Blog Mastermind course when I started blogging (a phenomenal course which has since been expanded).

While my story is about building my personal brand, showing off my expertise and growing a network, the best fit for you might be different.

To inspire you, here are many other bloggers’ stories on blogging to job search success.

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Can a blog help you get a job? 31 case studies as proof

Case study #1: Blog a hobby into a career

"My blog was more helpful in my job search than my degree was"Click To Tweet

Name: Allison Hitz

Job acquired through blogging: Digital Content Strategist

Personal blog: The Book Wheel

Allison’s story:

“I leveraged my personal book blog to get a job with a company who who works with authors. Interestingly, I recently graduated and my blog was more helpful in my job search than my degree was.

I recently graduated with my Master’s of Public Policy but have been running a book blog for the last three years. Despite two relevant internships to my degree, those interviewing me were more interested in The Book Wheel than they were my education.

After a bit of job hunting with zero success, I decided to look into jobs that were relevant to the publishing industry and found a job working with authors, doing much of what I already do with my blog. I find it pretty amusing that my personal hobby was more beneficial to my career than my degree and while it’s disappointing, I love that I was able to follow one of my passions.”

Case study #2: Blog to track and focus on interested employers

"Having a URL that showed the company’s name helped create a connection with them"Click To Tweet

Name: William Anderson

Job acquired through blogging: Director of Marketing

Personal blog: Wiljr.org

William’s story:

“I use my site to own my public (and sometimes private) voice, while using other sites (iTunes and Soundcloud, Twitter and LinkedIn, etc.) as additional distribution channels. The idea being that at the end of the day, people can learn more about me on MY website.

I used my blog to help me find my current job (going on three years in August!) by creating a specific landing page (similar to this one) that targeted those skills that seemed most relevant for Align [From Jacob: his now-employer]. When I applied for the position, having a URL that showed the company’s name helped create a connection with the company and the location while also showing off my technical and marketing skills.

Adding Google Analytics to track domains and networks that were hitting specific sites helped me refine which companies were more interested and that I could follow up with.

When I came in to interview, the companies knew about me and I knew about them, allowing us to concentrate more on gaps and matching skills.”

(William even used his blog to get a new kidney!)

Case study #3: Blogging landed me $1000s in freelance work at a marketing conference

"Thoughtful, insightful blogging, where you can add value to a field, can definitely help get you freelance work, or even hired"Click To Tweet

Name: Dale Johnson

Jobs acquired through blogging: Content Creator, Graphic Design

Personal blog: Nomad Paradise

Dale’s story:

“In 2015 I attended MozCon, one of the world’s largest marketing conferences. I’m a designer and content creator, so many of the topics were well out of my expertise. While being proactive and engaged on Twitter, I also decided to write an article called ‘The Mole of MozCon’, and described what is was like to be a nonmarketer at a huge marketing conference. Once finished, I posted this piece in the official MozCon Facebook group, where 1000s of attendees were discussing topics. Initially nervous, the article gained a lot of traction, and ended up being liked and shared 100s of times. All of this culminated in a marketing executive from a large SEO agency reaching out to me.

He loved my work, and commissioned me for a series of infographics, equating to $1000s worth of work. We ended up having an ongoing relationship throughout 2015-16. Thoughtful, insightful blogging, where you can add value to a field, can definitely help get you freelance work, or even hired.”

Case study #4: Blog to make it big

'I leveraged my experience and content-management skills to land an editor position at a large, $1billion+ company running multiple women's lifestyle websites'Click To Tweet

Name: Nataliya Ogle

Job acquired through blogging: Editor

Personal blog: Style Tomes

Nataliya’s story:

“I've been blogging since 2009, though I seriously committed in 2012.

Last year, I leveraged my experience and content-management skills to land an editor position at a large, $1billion+ company running multiple women's lifestyle websites. My husband's digital marketing agency was helping with one of their projects when they mentioned they needed a content growth team.

I now manage a team of seven writers, the content calendar, and PR relationships. I still write for my blog and continue to grow it despite my position as an editor at the other publications.”

Case study #5: How a blog can open doors

'My blog is what opened the door for me with Thrive, and the incredible thing is it's also opened many other doors to opportunities I would never have imagined: freelance opportunities, guest writing spots, and on and on'Click To Tweet

Name: Sam Rexford

Job acquired through blogging: Content Marketer

Personal blog: Chill Reptile

Sam’s story:

“In October of 2019, I received an email from Thrive Themes that would change the course of my professional career. They were seeking a new content marketing team member, and were asking for examples of blogging work to filter candidates.

I remember thinking: Well, I'm already a Thrive Themes customer [Jacob: me too!] and use their products on my blog and love their software… I might as well give it a shot.

I fired off an application and was quickly hired by the team as a remote content marketer after they reviewed my credentials and my blog. It's been an amazing experience.

I can honestly say that my blog is what opened the door for me with Thrive, and the incredible thing is it's also opened many other doors to opportunities I would never have imagined: freelance opportunities, guest writing spots, and on and on.”

Case study #6: Blog to show off your skills and expertise

"I made myself my own job to blog once a day while I looked for work"Click To Tweet

Name: Jonathan Alonso

Job acquired through blogging: SEO Analyst

Personal blog: Jongeek.com

Jonathan’s story:

“I had a CV website that did nothing but send users to view my resume, portfolio and letters of recommendations. All of it was just information sitting there with no real fresh contribution to what I really do. So I made myself my own job to blog once a day while I looked for work.

The blog was centered in the SEO industry and I would lay out tactics, new strategies and other methods to use in a successful digital marketing campaign. During interviews, I would bring up these case studies and blog posts and it was like having a promoter on the Internet showcasing my true skills instead of just me saying it in a 10 minute conversation. Soon almost 80% of my phone interviews became in-person or over Skype.

(Another marketing tool I used was social media. Using inbound marketing tactics, I boosted and advertised my posts and had clear calls to action like “Hire Me” or a small bio after the article with a 1-800 voicemail phone number.)

Living 1-2 hours from Orlando is stressful since Melbourne (Florida, were I live) is really scarce when it comes to Digital Marketing positions, but because of my blog strategy, I was able to land a job 25 minutes from home, allowing me to have a better quality of life and more time with my family.”

Case study #7: Young professionals should use blogs to show value

"Using my style blog as a vehicle to illustrate my knowledge of the digital landscape would be crucial in communicating my value as a young professional in the digital marketing industry"Click To Tweet

Name: Joanna Faith Williams

Job acquired through blogging: Digital Advertising

Personal blog: Joanna Faith Williams

Joanna’s story:

“I recently moved from the South to New York City, and without a job lined up and starting my career in such a competitive market, I knew I had to do whatever it took to differentiate myself.

Even with 4 internships under my belt, leadership awards, and other great experiences from my college career, I knew that using my style blog as a vehicle to illustrate my knowledge of the digital landscape would be crucial in communicating my value as a young professional in the digital marketing industry.

I landed an incredible job in digital advertising at a massively successful company, but was blessed with a total of three job offers from companies that were fascinated with my experience running a blog, especially because I run it like a business.

My blog allowed me to have real world experience communicating with brands, negotiating rates, thinking out of the box, working with different platforms, and understanding how the internet works. I was pleasantly surprised by their interest in this, and found myself answering more questions in interviews about my blog than my extensive internship experience, so I'm very thankful I've taken my online brand seriously as it's truly been a reason for my success in this new phase of post-graduate life.”

Case study #8: Blogs as resume

"My blogs are my resume"Click To Tweet

Name: Gautam Kumar

Job acquired through blogging: SEO Manager

Personal blog: Recent Highlights

Gautam’s story:

“I started in 2011 after finding out that there was something called Blogger and you can create your own blogs online. I got excited and created one and thus started my journey. I learned about Content Creation, SEO, Google rankings online and kept working on my blogs. My first blog was zapworld.in and in the next 3 years, it got more than 3 million views. I started with a competitive niche and got to learn a lot about SEO while competing with some of the biggest names like CNN, TheWindowsClub etc. Since then I have created 30+ blogs for myself and have got over 30+ million views on all combined.

I graduated from college in 2017 and since I was already freelancing for many of my local as well as international clients, I started getting recommended to SEO agencies. That's how I got my first job. I have never hard to interview for any job in the last 3 years. My blogs are my resume. I have started a new blog recently named Recenthighlights.com and that's where I will continue to write when I get some time away from my job. Currently, I am working as a Technical Content Writer at an agency and am very satisfied with my life. Blogging is the best thing that ever happened to me and I'm very grateful to have found a way to make a living through blogging and SEO-related jobs.”

Case study #9: Blog to be memorable and build rapport with employers

"My blog helped me stand out and gave the hiring manager something to remember"Click To Tweet

Name: Anna Rice

Job acquired through blogging: Senior Publicist

Personal blog: The Blonde Banana

Anna’s story:

“A couple years ago I was already working full-time in public relations, but was dying to break into an agency that would offer me the chance to gain experience in the field I was truly passionate about: travel.

I found the perfect PR agency with a mix of fashion, outdoor and travel clients and sent in my resume along with a cover letter linking to my blog, The Blonde Banana, which is about seeing the world on weekends and in 24, 36, 48 and 72-hour stints.

Even though they weren’t hiring at the time, the hiring manager was impressed by how well my interests aligned with their client base, and called me in for an interview. During the interview, she revealed that she was actually hoping to hire someone soon but hadn’t posted the job yet. She asked if I would be able to complete a writing test by the end of the weekend and I had to inform her that I was going to be in Ecuador for the weekend, but that I’d work on it as soon as I returned. Instead of being annoyed at the inconvenience, she thought it was really cool that I was willing to travel to Ecuador for the weekend, which sparked a discussion about my blog.

Long story short, I landed the job and once I was hired, I was frequently asked to contribute to the company blog and help out with social media initiatives because of my expertise. I won’t say that my blog got me the job, as I think my background in the PR industry played a larger role, but it definitely helped me stand out from other candidates and gave the hiring manager something to remember.”

Case study #10: Blog as work portfolio

'I didn't have much of a professional portfolio or resume to speak of, but I was able to provide lots of examples of various types of content I created for my blog'Click To Tweet

Name: Natalie Slater

Job acquired through blogging: Community Manager

Personal blog: Bake and Destroy

Natalie’s story:

“I was hired for my first job out of college back in 2008 because of my blog, Bake and Destroy. I didn't have much of a professional portfolio or resume to speak of, but I was able to provide lots of examples of various types of content I created for my blog, and tactics I used on social media to drive traffic to that content. My eventual employer was impressed not only with my writing and marketing skills, but also appreciated my entrepreneurial instincts.”

Case study #11: Attract companies who want to improve their own blogging

"When I had an interview at boutique PR Firm, my blog on tourism was incredibly useful"Click To Tweet

Name: Ashley Price

Job acquired through blogging: Social Media Specialist

Personal blog: Pricelessly Imperfect

Ashley’s story:

“I never saw myself as a blogger actually but in undergrad I needed a class for my journalism minor so I took Online Journalism. My blog was incredibly successful and even a decade later, it still shows up on page 1 of Google for my niche even though it’s been dead for years. When I had an interview at boutique PR Firm, my blog on tourism was incredibly useful. We spent most of my interview going over the strategies I used to make my personal blog successful and the why behind it. They liked my success in that space and I was hired a week later. That job really launched my career as I was CMO by 26. Now, I blog full-time.”

Case study #12: Blog as personal showcase

"My blog is not only a creative outlet for me, but serves as an online portfolio"Click To Tweet

Name: Vanessa Labi

Job acquired through blogging: Digital Engagement Specialist

Personal blog: Babesicle

Vanessa’s story:

“I’ve been blogging for the last few years on my personal style blog, Babesicle, and I believe it’s helped me get my current full-time position as a digital engagement specialist at Creative California, a digital marketing firm based in Sacramento, CA.

My blog is not only a creative outlet for me, but serves as an online portfolio for the type of web writing, promotion, and social media marketing I am capable of. It has helped to get my foot in the door, so to speak. My boss, Creative California founder Josh Rubin, was more apt to meet with me for an interview because he was able to see my face and “get to know me” a bit online rather than simply browsing my resume and LinkedIn page.”

Case study #13: Blog to build credibility and prove your track record

"The blog changed the discussion from being about me to being about how I could help the employer"Click To Tweet

Name: Steve Robins

Job acquired through blogging: Director of Product Marketing

Personal blog: Solutionmarketingblog.com

Steve’s story:

“My blog helped transform my last job search. The blog changed the discussion from being about me to being about how I could help the employer, which was much better.

Before I started the blog, employers would ask me “what other companies have you talked to? How is the search going?” etc.

But once I started the blog, people focused much more on that instead. Interviews often started with something like “I read your blog and really liked your post on solution marketing,” which gave me instant credibility with the hiring manager. That helped change interviews from Q&A about my background into more useful discussions about my opinions and how I’d help the company.”

Case study #14: Blog to grow your personal brand

"I used my blog as a launchpad to build my personal brand"Click To Tweet

Name: Dominique Jackson

Job acquired through blogging: SEO Manager

Personal blog: Dominiquej.com

Dominique’s story:

“I used my blog as a launchpad to build my personal brand, showcase my knowledge and skills and build my portfolio. That allowed me to showcase my experience when I was interviewing for my current job as an SEO manager.

I didn’t have a college degree and or experience doing SEO work for clients like I’m sure most of the other candidates had. But my blog showed the company I was interviewing with that I understood the ins and outs of SEO, had strong writing skills, and had some real life experience with online marketing.

An interesting thing that I did was use my blog as a way to get guest blog posts on some well known sites. Those guest blog posts gave me even more credibility during the hiring process because it showed the company that I knew how to build links legitimately and showcased my writing ability even more. I included links to all of the top guest posts I did as well as my blog in my initial email to the company. That helped set me apart from other candidates right off the bat, because I wasn’t just sending a resume.

My blog functioned (and still does) as the “hub” for my personal brand online. Aside from helping me land my current full time job as an SEO manager, my blog also gets me inquiries from people interested in having me do freelance work with them.”

Case study #15: Blog to prepare for a desired career

"Once I wanted another job, I realized that everything on my blog was perfectly aligned"Click To Tweet

Name: Sara Woznicki

Job acquired through blogging: Marketing Specialist

Personal blog: Astoldoverbrunch.com

Sara’s story:

“I started my blog not too seriously at first, but was supposed to keep an online portfolio for one of my classes in school, to demonstrate I knew the basics of web design. Once I had that live out in the interwebs, I figured I might as well make it worth having out there, so I started blogging randomly to keep it timely. Then the information got outdated on my portfolio, so I moved over to a WordPress site, and focused solely on the blog portion. I wrote personal pieces, some about the current job I had and some about how I was transitioning into adulthood (think “ways to save money” and really basic things like that).

Once I wanted another job, I realized that everything I employed on my blog was perfectly aligned with most digital marketing jobs. From a really high level, I had touched marketing (social media marketing, cross pollinating with other bloggers, etc), writing for SEO, content management, public relations, basic coding, and more. When I went into the job interview, I pulled up my site, told them my metrics and talked about how much I had learned from running my own blog. It was better than my resume and more impactful than just a portfolio. I was also able to demonstrate how I was able to take challenges and turn them into opportunities. For example, we were on WordPress and decided to move to Squarespace. That killed a lot of our site authority, so I was able to talk about how I tried to recover from that.

I can also say that continuing to run a blog also helps my current job with the connections I make, and learning about what gets people to read and subscribe. It’s been a really good test place for small scale ideas.”

Case study #16: Blog to build an online presence and show initiative

"He gave the fact that I was a writer and blogger extra weight when I interviewed for the position"Click To Tweet

Name: Kevin Espiritu

Job acquired through blogging: Head of Marketing

Personal blogs: kevinespiritu.com and Supremestrategies.com

Kevin’s story:

“The writing I did on my blogs got me connected to a buddy, Justin Mares, who I met up in San Francisco while doing some networking for a startup that I co-founded in early 2014. He introduced me to Zach Obront, who ended up being the co-founder of Book in a Box with Tucker Max.

When my startup failed at the end of November, Zach had reached out to me looking for a marketing person for Book in a Box because he’d read and liked a few of my pieces (he has a blog of his own). Tucker, being a writer, also gave the fact that I was a writer and blogger extra weight when I interviewed for the position. My interview was AWFUL (I’d never done one before in my life) but the fact that I’d been proactive enough to build a little online presence and show initiative in that way was the tipping point that led to my hire.”

Case study #17: Blog to gain work-like experience

"The experience I gained through my blog lead me to find my current job"Click To Tweet

Name: Jacqueline Colman

Job acquired through blogging: SEO Account Manager

Personal blog: Claws Up!

Jacqueline’s story:

“After I graduated college, I worked two jobs that both required me to wear a uniform. As someone that values personal expression, I was looking for a new outlet to express myself. Creating a beauty blog was the perfect solution that allowed me to both create looks and write.

Blogging started as a hobby, but it soon became a passion. I started teaching myself how to develop and grow my online presence through the use of social media and SEO. That is when I knew this was where my career path was headed.

The experience I gained in social media and SEO that I acquired through my blog lead me to find my current job as an SEO account manger. I work for a company that helps both small business and larger enterprise clients to build and optimize their websites, and develop their online presence. As an account manager, I get to work with clients one-on-one to help them do what I love doing for myself – build their online presence.”

Case study #18: Blog to shape people’s impressions of you

"blogging has done amazing things for me"Click To Tweet

Name: Sarah Jukes

Job acquired through blogging: SEO Account Manager

Personal blog: Sarahjukes.com

Sarah’s story:

“I knew any potential employer would put my name through google, so why not control exactly what they see?

I used social media strategically to brand myself, engage a wider audience and express my personality online. I still continue these strategies even after meeting my end goal of finding a job.

Here’s what I did. I ramped up my twitter feed and posted diverse but professionally relevant links. I added a layer of authenticity to my tweets by including a couple of words about why I thought the link was interesting or important.

But the biggest thing I did in this space was to regularly write on my blog. Blogging is one of the most powerful platforms you can use to control what people read about you and the impression they form of you.

To be an effective personal blogger, you have to be willing to share a little about yourself. The best personal blogs challenge the status quo, demonstrate logical thought patterns, express vulnerability, articulate a journey and demonstrate a commitment to personal improvement. Your audience, no matter how big or small, forces you to be that little bit more accountable for living with purpose.

Remember that blog post I wrote that went viral? That could not have come at a more perfect time for me. At the time it exploded I was in serious negotiations over my new job. To walk into a job interview and negotiations and talk about how something I wrote got 12,000 facebook likes in a day (yes, that really happened) made me look accomplished, competent and interesting.

Needless to say, blogging has done amazing things for me. It has opened up tremendous doors, ones I could never have dreamed about. I have met some amazing people thanks to this virtual space.”

Case study #19: Use a blog as proof of ability

Name: Quincy Smith

Jobs acquired through blogging: SEO consultant and Lead SEO

Personal blog: ESL Authority

Quincy’s story:

“I run eslauthority.com, a site/blog dedicated to helping people teach abroad. This site has helped me land 2 jobs (SEO consultant and Lead SEO) as well as get approached to do freelance work within the same industry. For the jobs I was able to showcase the organic traffic growth + other marketing successes as proof of my skills – for the consulting I was approached by companies in the same space looking to replicate some of my success.”

Case study #20: A single blog post can earn a job offer

Name: Valerio Puggioni

Job acquired through blogging: Creative Director

Personal blog: Copygun

Valerio’s story:

“One blog I ran was Mister Pajamas (now defunct). It landed me a one-off article gig at Right Hook Digital, but that led to me being hired full time as creative director at the agency. Another blog I ran was fbswipes.com, where I just analyzed Facebook ads. I hadn't done it for long, and it was just a pet project, but an agency owner in New York approached me asking if I'd like a full time gig at his agency. (I didn't take it, but the pay was excellent.)”

Case study #21: Blog to internship to full-time job

"I was hired as a writer by a personal finance website because of my blog"Click To Tweet

Name: Jen Smith

Job acquired through blogging: Writer

Personal blog: Modern Frugality

Jen’s story:

“I was hired as a writer by a personal finance website because of my blog. I was initially hired for an internship then took a full-time job with the company a year later. And of course I wrote about it on my blog. Then a year later the company laid off half its employees so I no longer work there and I'm blogging/freelancing full-time.”

Case study #22: Even small blogs can lead to jobs

"Once I wanted another job, I realized that everything on my blog was perfectly aligned"Click To Tweet

Name: Mayank Batavia

Job acquired through blogging: Content Writer

Personal blog: Almostism

Mayank’s story:

“This how I landed two small freelancing gigs based on my blog.

I run a small blog Almostism where I write about AI and data privacy. While the blog is small, I rank #1 or #2 for niche keywords like “China AI action plan.” Also, I rank in various niches like 3D printing companies in India, ethical questions facing AI, and so on.

The first client asked me about my sample writing and I asked them to google “China AI action plan.” They thought it was neat and offered me a freelance writing project.

The second client I met on LinkedIn and I didn't even know they were looking for anything. We just exchanged some views on ethics in AI. After our very
brief discussion, they suggested I should write a blog on it And I laughed and I said I already have one. They asked for a link to it. I shared the link. They asked me if I'd like to I'd write a brief writeup for their CEO's email interview and I got that too!”

Case study #23: Use a blog to demonstrate results you've achieved

'the best way to get a job outside of your qualification is to actually do the thing on the side and demonstrate the results you've achieved' (@thetraveltart)Click To Tweet

Name: Anthony Bianco

Job acquired through blogging: Content Specialist

Personal blog: The Travel Tart

Anthony’s story:

“I've landed a Content Specialist role in the past because of my blog. As an example, I have a background in Environmental Science, but now I do work in content and digital marketing because of my travel blog. That's because I'd picked up skills in website management, SEO, social media, PR etc. I think the best way to get a job outside of your qualification is to actually do the thing on the side and demonstrate the results you've achieved.”

Case study #24: Blog perspectives attract like-minded organizations

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Name: Kenny Screven

Job acquired through blogging: Peer Navigator

Personal blog: Kevin Screven's Instagram

Kenny’s story:

“I’m a blogger who was hired because of my online posts. A lot of the content I post online is geared towards LGBT+ advocacy and beauty. I was hired by an LGBT+ center that focuses on marginalized groups, who reached out to me to take control of their social media accounts and to teach queer kids about beauty. I was extremely happy to be offered this position because I would be able to impact people not just globally but locally as well. I really enjoy my job, it’s everything that I would want and they support my social media career as well. I was always afraid that if social media did not work out for me that no one in the professional world would take me serious because of the beauty content I post online.”

Case study #25: From hobby blogger to employee to agency owner

Name: Paul Bonea

Job acquired through blogging: Content Writer

Personal blog: Perfect Data

Paul’s story:

“Some years back I created a hobby blog, hastyreader.com. I didn't know much about blogging at the time, and only wrote stuff I thought was interesting. I ended up having little traffic.

As the months went by, I figured I liked doing this and started to apply to jobs that were blogging-related. I landed a job at a cybersecurity company as a content writer, after they saw and liked my blog.

I absorbed a lot of SEO, and after another year or so I switched jobs as a landing page copywriter, where I worked with conversion rates and also SEO. I didn't like the job, so I kept applying to other ones that were higher skilled. Most people turned me down for lack of experience.

I still kept hammering away at the keyboard for my blog and kept sending applications. A very small company that developed web products liked my blog and my pitch and decided to take a chance on me as the one-man marketing department. I learned a great deal at that company, and formed some nice contacts. I transformed those contacts into clients and soon enough I quit my job and started the Perfect Data agency.”

Case study #26: A blog shows off many skills companies need

"Having the blog showed my future employer that I had existing experience not just with writing high-quality content, but also in ranking on Google as well as basic project management skills"Click To Tweet

Name: Megan Marrs

Job acquired through blogging: Content Marketer

Personal blog: K9 of Mine

Megan’s story:

“I was able to get a content marketing position in part due to my successful blog – K9 of Mine – which I have been slowly developing over the years. Having the blog showed my future employer that I had existing experience not just with writing high-quality content, but also in ranking on Google with SEO techniques as well as basic project management skills (for times where I needed to work with graphic design contractors). Managing my own blog also helped me develop social media marketing and email marketing skills, all of which look very desirable to employers!”

Case study #27: How-to blog posts show employers you know how

Name: Jeff Moriarty

Job acquired through blogging: SEO Consultant

Personal blog: J Moriarty Marketing

Jeff’s story:

“I added an in-depth website migration blog post on my website which detailed the process in which, as an SEO, I went through with a website migration. It's been pretty popular in our industry and I have got a part time job from this post. While only part time, which is fine due to my other freelance work, it pays well due to my experience and it being exactly what they were looking for.”

Case study #28: Use a blog to grow a side gig into a full-time one

'If it weren't for the writing, SEO, and technical experience I already had from working on my own blog, I don't think I would have ever been considered for the position I now hold'Click To Tweet

Name: Dylan Houlihan

Job acquired through blogging: Blog Editor

Personal blog: Swift Salary

Dylan’s story:

“It originally started as just a small side gig. I found a job posting on Facebook for a couple of small brand description writeups and I used my blog as a sort of online resume when applying. This helped me land the first gig, and over time, I kept working with the company on bigger and bigger projects, until I eventually transitioned into a full-time role. If it weren't for the writing, SEO, and technical experience I already had from working on my own blog, I don't think I would have ever been considered for the position I now hold.”

Case study #29: Blog compliments lead to a job offer

"My blog writing definitely helped open the door to the job opportunity and illustrate my expertise"Click To Tweet

Name: Elizabeth Lefelstein

Job acquired through blogging: Lead SEO

Personal blog: Elizabeth Lefelstein

Elizabeth’s story:

“I was hired at FOX Networks (FOX, FOX Sports, FOX News/Nation) as the Lead SEO because of my blog. A recruiter reached out to me last November complimenting my SEO blog articles, and asked me if I was open for an immediate contractor position at FOX. After reading the description of the role, I thought it would be an amazing fit for my SEO skill set, as well as my interest in entertainment. However, I was very aware of the competition there would be to land this position.

Long story short, I shared some of my best news- and Google algorithm-update centric SEO articles with the hiring managers. They loved the pieces, and it was a great way for me to demonstrate my ability to break down advanced SEO ideas into layman's terms. Three days later, I got the job offer. It obviously wasn't 100% because of my blog writing, but it definitely helped open the door to the opportunity and illustrate my expertise.”

Case study #30: It all came from blogging

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Name: Chad R. Macdonald

Jobs acquired through blogging: Writer, Speaker, Advocate, Social Media Specialist

Personal blog: Gcandu.com

Chad’s story:

“So I started writing and blogging full time when our son was born. From that, I began getting offers to work, contribute to various sites, and consult for various groups and non-profit organizations. During that time, I also built up my social media presence, and that led to writing sponsored content and social media influence work. Basically my current career these days is thanks to my blogging work.”

Case study #31: Your blog as application material

"I attribute my entire career in digital marketing to my blog"Click To Tweet

Name: Emily Polner

Job acquired through blogging: Social Media Manager

Personal blog: No Repeats or Hesitations

Emily’s story:

“I attribute my entire career in digital marketing to my blog. I started my blog as a college student and leveraged it to get my first social media internship as a college sophomore. Years later, I heavily referenced it in my application materials and in my interviews when I applied to be the Social Media Manager for a global fashion brand, and ended up getting that position as well. I recently started sharing my blog posts to my LinkedIn feed and so far, it’s being very well-received by prospective, current, and former colleagues alike.”

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