samedi 30 septembre 2017
David Spade lists his Buick Grand National for $33,000
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Lady Gaga shares health update as she battles Fibromyalgia
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Playboy's Devin Devasquez talks last meeting with Hefner
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Inspiring Simplicity. Weekend Reads.
Never underestimate the importance of removing stuff you don’t need.
Encouragement provides us with motivation to persevere. It invites us to dream dreams of significance for our lives. And it begs us to work diligently with optimism and promise.
Overcoming the pull of consumerism is a difficult challenge regardless of our stage in life. Simplicity requires encouragement. To that end, I hope you will find motivation in these articles below.
Each post was intentionality chosen to inspire simplicity in your life. For maximum effect, find a quiet moment this weekend and enjoy them with a fresh cup of coffee or tea.
How I Stopped Checking My Phone And Started Using It With Intention | For The Interested by Josh Spector. I set out to change my phone habits and create a simple set of rules to limit the negative (and amplify the positive) impacts of when and how I use my phone.
I’m Drowning in Clutter and It’s Making Me Depressed | Perfection Pending by Melissa Sackett. It’s so incredibly hard to parent when you’re drowning. When you feel squished under the weight of all there is to do and all the stuff surrounding you, longing to be put in its place.
The Shorter Your Sleep, The Shorter Your Life: The New Sleep Science | The Guardian by Rachel Cooke. “It had a powerful effect on me. After reading it, I was absolutely determined to go to bed earlier.”
The Missing Diamond | Love, Liberty, Shelter by Liberty. It feels good to be free of the clutches of materialism.
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California Gurl Katy Perry lists Hollywood Hills mansion
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vendredi 29 septembre 2017
Jason Alexander shows his support for Julia Louis-Dreyfus
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jeudi 28 septembre 2017
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📵 Why You Should NOT Answer the Phone When Recruiters Call, Stupid
Better a return call when you're ready than a missed call when you aren't.
This is a guest post by Graeme Gilovitz.
This has to sound like the stupidest idea you have ever heard.
How can you get the job if you don't actually talk to someone?
Even today, when you can communicate via so many media such as email, SMSes, WhatsApp, LinkedIn, Facebook Messenger and any other applications, the only way to actually get the job is to talk to someone on the phone at some point and then meet them.
Yet…
Note: There is a poll embedded within this post, please visit the site to participate in this post's poll.Two reasons to ignore recruiter calls
1) Get prepared
As a recruiter, we love to catch people off guard because then we get to see (or in this case, hear) the real you and how you behave. Your tone gives us a great insight to your attitude, personality, politeness and professionalism.
So when we call and you have no idea who we are, where we are calling from or what role you applied for, you are already on the defensive and the power is with the recruiter. Most likely, you have applied for a few jobs and after a while the calls all sound the same which makes it harder to answer any of their phone questions.
It would be funny if it weren't so true.
This little conversation is the first stage of the interview process and needs to be treated with as much preparation as a face-to-face interview, even if the call only lasts 5 minutes.
Not answering the call gives you time to gather all the relevant information regarding your application, find a quiet place to talk and focus on answering their questions as well as you can. You can’t do any of that when you are taking calls on the fly, especially in a noisy area.
So instead of rushing to take the call, call them back.
2) Play hard to get (a little)
When someone is a too easy to get hold of, it gives the impression that you are sitting by the phone all the time, which translates into “I am desperate for a job”. But if you play a bit hard to get, you can increase your “perceived value”.
You can always tell them later that you were in an interview, or a meeting, etc., giving the impression that you must be a valuable potential candidate because other people are already meeting with you (simple logic of supply and demand).
Alternatively, just say that you were “unavailable to take the call” – the most universally used excuse ever.
What to do after ignoring the call
When you actually return the call, follow these tips:
- Find a quiet place to talk and more importantly, where you can listen
- Have a copy of the recruiter's job ad ready – make sure that you have reread it and have notes
- Have a copy of your application (resume and cover letter) to reference, and especially selection criteria (if there were any)
- As you know the name of the person who called (if they left you a message) and where they work, do some background digging – try LinkedIn and Facebook. I wouldn't recommend you using this information but at least you'll know who you are dealing with
- Apologize for not being able to take the call
- Have note paper and pen in case they mention anything useful or ask you for an interview and they provide details
- Anticipate the questions that they might ask
What happens if they don't leave a message or you accidentally answer the call?
- You need to get off the call ASAP no matter what!
- Apologize and explain that it isn't a convenient time to chat “as you are expecting an important call” and ask that you call them back at an agreed time
- Take their name, company, phone number
- Revert back to the above tips
Ring ring – what are you going to do?
READ NEXT: How To Video Job Interview With Your Cellphone
Bonus: A Recruiter Calls, But I'm Not Prepared
About the author
Graeme Gilovitz is Director of Summit Resumes and Summit Talent (an Australian-based recruitment agency with an international reach and client base), & has worked in-house with the some of the largest companies in Australia. With a background in advertising and marketing prior to recruitment, Graeme possesses an unique perspective on communication, the recruitment process and how to ensure that you get the most out of your job search. He blogs regularly, focusing on his insights.
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mercredi 27 septembre 2017
Seven 5-Minute Decluttering Projects You Can Accomplish Today
Picture your dream home. I bet it’s not filled with clutter. (tweet that)
Uncluttered spaces are life-giving. They promote calm, peace, freedom.
But sometimes, uncluttered spaces are difficult to realize. For any number of reasons, homes fill up with more and more things. Existing clutter attracts more clutter. And as a result, imagining decluttered spaces in our home becomes more and more difficult.
Minimizing all the clutter in our house over the course of one weekend is not reasonable for most people. However, taking a few small steps in the right direction is possible for everyone.
Here are seven 5-minute decluttering projects you can accomplish today:
1. Clean out your car/vehicle. Too often our vehicles fill up with unnecessary things: old CDs, sunglasses, Happy Meal toys, receipts, coins, empty water bottles, paper trash. Grab two bags: one for garbage and one for items to relocate. Fill them quickly with everything in your car that doesn’t need to be there. You’ll be surprised how quickly you can empty your vehicle of unneeded clutter.
2. Clear off the top of your bedroom dresser. Bedrooms should promote rest, relaxation, and intimacy—not upheaval and unrest. With focused attention, it will take you less than five minutes to clear off the top of your dresser. And it will change the entire mood in your bedroom.
3. Clean out a bathroom medicine chest. If empty containers, expired products, and dozens of items no longer used are cluttering up your medicine chest (and probably the cupboards under your sink), take a few minutes and remove everything that can go. Then, dispose of it wisely.
4. Return toys to the toy room or bedroom where they belong. If you have young children (or even older ones), you know that toys routinely get strewn around the house. Grab a few minutes with your child this evening before bed and make sure all the toys get taken back to the room or space they belong. If this task seems overwhelming, consider some of the benefits of owning fewer toys. But in the meantime, do your best to teach your children the importance of returning items when finished using them.
5. Declutter your plates or cups cupboard. Many modern homes are filled with duplicate items. One of the places this can be easily noticed is in our kitchen cupboards. Realistically, how many cups, mugs, bowls, and plates does your family need? Have you slowly accumulated an entire cupboard full of them? Maybe. Reach in the back, grab those that are never used, and minimize them forever from your life and valuable kitchen space.
6. Tackle a junk drawer. Some junk drawers may take longer than five minutes, I admit. If you’ve got the extra time, declutter it completely. However, for a strict five-minute task, set a timer on your watch and see how much of the junk you can remove from the drawer. You may be surprised how much you can remove in that time frame—and how quickly you can accomplish something when you put your mind to it.
7. Sort through a pile of mail or paper. Junk mail piling up on your kitchen counter? Is there a stack of paper files on your home office desk? First, look for piles of paper in places they don’t belong (kitchen counters, dining room tables, coffee tables) and tackle those piles first. You’ll get through them quickly and easily. If you’re feeling motivated, move on to tackle a larger pile—sometimes taking the first step is the hardest.
I realize, of course, everyone’s living arrangement looks a little bit different than others. Specifically, for you, one of the projects listed above may take longer than five minutes. But for the most part, they can be completed quickly. And whether you accomplish one or all seven, you’ll be thankful you did. They might not solve all your clutter issues, but they’ll definitely get you moving in the right direction.
Happy decluttering. You’ll love owning less!
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mardi 26 septembre 2017
Khloe Kardashian 'pregnant with Tristan Thompson's child'
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Kim Kardashian 'didn't respond well at first' to Kylie
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lundi 25 septembre 2017
Brie Larson reveals struggling with lack of confidence
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Heidi Klum, 44, confirms split from Vito Schnabel, 31
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dimanche 24 septembre 2017
Audrina Patridge hands off daughter to ex Corey Bohan
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samedi 23 septembre 2017
Scottie Pippen rents out Miami mansion for $40,000 a month
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vendredi 22 septembre 2017
Celebrity Worship
Recently, I attended a concert. It was a big one—like a completely filled football-stadium-sized concert. The musicians were talented and well-known, and the line to buy t-shirts seemed to never end.
The way we as a society interact with celebrities is something I think a lot about. I often wonder why so many people care more about the lives of people they will never meet than the neighbor living next to them. Musicians, athletes, and entertainers sometimes receive more of our focus and attention than the people in our home. Why is that?
As I enjoyed the concert, I again wrestled with some of these thoughts. Celebrities, it seems to me, conjure up a number of possible responses inside us:
Indifference. No doubt, there are numerous people famous in certain segments of the world or society that you have never heard about. And neither have I. However, to others, maybe even people very close to me, they would be considered well-known. But we are indifferent toward them—for any number of reasons.
Dislike. Sometimes, for very shallow reasons, we have made a decision to dislike a specific celebrity. We boo athletes that don’t wear our colors, express disdain over a celebrity who holds a different political view than our own, or feel that a certain writer isn’t nearly as good as the one we like better. Dislike of a person you have never met, based entirely on what you perceive to be true about them, seems like a pretty unwise response when you think about it.
Thankfulness. Sometimes, gratitude towards a specific celebrity is a correct response. Musicians who move us, artists who change us, athletes who bring pride to our city, actors or actresses who portray a character that brings us hope, or maybe a writer who has changed our life in one way or another. In these cases, thankfulness is proper—just as it would be toward anyone who has influenced us positively.
Appreciation. Appreciation, similar to gratitude, is often a positive response to those who hold “celebrity” status. That’s how I felt at the concert the other night. These were talented musicians who had spent a lifetime mastering their craft. I could appreciate the talent and work and discipline that was required to become the artists they had become. Similar feelings could be appropriate towards artists in other fields, executives, industry leaders, or entertainers.
Worship. This, in my opinion, is where we as a society begin to go wrong. Among researchers, “celebrity worship” is an academic term that refers to a continuum of unhealthy personal responses to celebrity status—ranging from attraction to uncontrollable behaviors and fantasies. According to some studies, 33% of people fall somewhere on this continuum in their interaction with celebrities–although only a miniscule amount would suffer from obsessional tendencies.
For the sake of this post, I define celebrity worship not on the end of the spectrum that afflicts only a small percentage of people, but the normalized, cultural obsession that seems to define so many:
- Uncontrollable fascination, such as making special effort to read personal details about a famous celebrity’s life.
- Obsession with conversing about or being around others equally infatuated with the same celebrity.
- Daydreaming about being involved in an intimate way—even in a joking manner (“celebrity exemption” for example).
- Uncontrolled screaming or unconventional physical responses to their presence.
- Purchasing artifacts and/or souvenirs connected to the celebrity.
- Purchasing clothing or products based solely on their name, use, or endorsement.
Granted, even these actions above can be graded on a scale, but I wanted to offer a description of how I most often see celebrity worship.
Proper appreciation, even thankfulness, toward somebody in the public eye is a proper, even healthy response.
Worship, on the other hand, carries some significant dangers. Idolizing celebrities often causes us to overlook the very real, tangible mentors right in front of us. Celebrity worship, on the other hand, is often based only on public perceptions (sometimes carefully manipulated) of a person, which in turn results in incorrect assumptions about them. This is why fans can be so let down when a celebrity’s private actions end up not aligning with their public persona.
Celebrity worship can cause us to idolize and desire certain lifestyles that, at least from the outside, appear to bring greater happiness than the one we have causing us to miss some of the blessings right in front of us. It can result, too often, in watching another person’s life rather than making the most of our own.
Additionally, on a significant level, not keeping a celebrity’s role in our everyday life in proper perspective results in giving up more and more control of ourselves to them. Suddenly, the celebrity begins influencing how we spend our time, our money, and our energies. James Houran, author of Celebrity Worshippers: Inside the Minds of Stargazers said it like this:
We’re not just a media saturated society but an entertainment saturated society, and so we turn to these celebrities for all aspects of our life. Now these figures are larger than life. Celebrities just don’t sell us products anymore; it’s not just for entertainment. But now you start seeing entertainment being part of mainstream media, mainstream news shows, your everyday life. You can’t get away from it. We are bombarded by it wherever we look.
There are people in your life that you ought to look up to as role models and mentors. Some you know well, others you will never meet. And it is certainly wise to feel appreciation and gratitude when appropriate.
But when our view of celebrities begins to move past appreciation and into undeserved worship, it would be wise for each of us to catch ourselves and consider the consequences—they are not benign.
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jeudi 21 septembre 2017
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Cher no longer fits into Seventies costumes at 126lbs
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mercredi 20 septembre 2017
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✈ 50 Great Jobs You Can Easily Do While You Travel
Use your laptop to pay for travel, while you travel.
You might just discover a new career while you're at it.
Background
In a posting to the Digital Eve Israel Yahoo Group, a group member asked the following question:
“Any leads on how to find a job that can be done on my laptop, here and there, so that I can still pay my bills while traveling?”
This reminded me of the time when I was still a programmer at Amazon.com back in 2000.
Living in Paris but working daily over the Internet with people in Seattle, I wanted to visit my family in Montreal without taking a lot of vacation time either. Luckily, Amazon's computer systems allowed people to connect from outside the office and that made it easier to convince my boss to let me go.
In the end, I only took off 2 days for traveling purposes and otherwise worked full days from my parents' house, basically paying for my trip and expenses. A side benefit to Amazon was that having me in a middle time zone (6 hours behind Paris but 3 ahead of Seattle) made some projects easier to finish on time.
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Working while traveling abroad and telecommuting aren't quite the same thing
People usually associate telecommuting with a full-time job that lets you regularly work from home, but it can also be a part-time job on the road.
To best answer the question above, let's set out some criteria that make more sense regarding jobs for travelers. Those jobs usually need to be:
- Jobs you can do over the Internet
- Jobs that can be done over a short time-span i.e. during your travels
- Jobs you can get on short notice
This last one is important in case you need multiple jobs to pay all your bills during your trip.
So we're dealing with freelance jobs. However, if you choose well and deliver well, a short-term freelance job can become a longer-term freelance job that you continue from home after traveling.
Jobs you can do while traveling
With that in mind, the list below of online jobs for travelers should give you all sorts of ideas. Each job title points at a real job description, and if the description isn't a good match for you, just do a search on the job title to find more open jobs like it.
- 3D and Flash Animator
- Accountant
- Advertiser
- Administrative Assistant
- Article Writer
- Billing and Debt Collection Representative
- Blog Programmer
- Career Coach
- Virtual Assistant
- Advertising Poster
- Copywriter
- Customer Service Representative
- Data Entry Provider
- Data Specialist
- Database Developer
- E-book Writer
- Email Template Designer
- Flash/Web Developer
- Graphic Artist
- Caricaturist
- Marketing & Lead Generation Campaigner
- Logo Designer
- Online Tutor
- Personal Assistant/Secretary
- Press Release Writer
- Project Manager
- Recruitment Researcher
- Sourcer (not sorcerer!)
- Resume Writer
- Sales Presentation Designer
- SEO Analyst
- Foreign Language Voice Talents
- Technical Support
- Telemarketing Professional
- Transcriptionist
- Travel Planner
- Typist
- Video Editor
- Web Content Writer
- Web Designer
- Website Translator
- Stock Photographer
- Voice-overs
- Cartoonist
- Real Estate Researcher
- Business Consultant
- Legal Advisor
- User Guides and Manuals Editor
- Game Developers
- Travel Writer
Don't think this is possible? Not for you?
See how these laptop warriors have built careers while traveling:
- Lauren Juliff, @NEFootsteps: How I Fund my Travels Around the World
- Benny Lewis, @irishpolyglot: How to become a location-independent freelance translator
- Amanda Williams, @dangerousbiz: My Life as a Travel Blogger
- Adam Groffman: @travelsofadam: How to Make Money with a Travel Blog
- Taylor Banks: @learningbanks: Why Working From the Road Is Good for Business (and How to Do It)
- Alyssa Ramos: @alyssaramos: How This Woman Went From Broke To Traveling Full-Time (And Making Lots Of Money)
- Paul Minors: @paulminors: Side-hustle success story (and lessons learned): from full-time job to traveling indie-entrepreneur earning 2X as much in 1/2 the time
- Nathan Buchan: @world_nate: How I earn money while travelling full-time
- Matthew Karsten: @expertvagabond: This Is How I Get Paid To Travel The World
Bonus tip for beginners
Like with any job, having work experience will help a lot compared to a candidate who has no experience. But even having just a little bit of experience will make a difference because it will still allow you to tell potential employers “I've done this online before”.
With that in mind, get experience before your travels by doing some quick, cheap projects. This has the added benefit of getting you familiar with freelance marketplaces, negotiation with potential employers, and actually getting paid with all that's involved.
It would suck to be in a foreign country expecting to receive your pay the next day only to discover that you need to wait a few more days because of some strange policy you didn't know about. Practice before you go!
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Question of the article
Have you ever worked while traveling for pleasure? How did you find the job? Tell us in the comments.
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dimanche 17 septembre 2017
A Helpful Guide to Packing Lightly
Note: This is a guest post from Natalie Sisson, Suitcase Entrepreneur.
Packing lightly and effectively is a desired art.
Much like travel, the more you do, the better you become at it. Until one day you wake up and feel like a pro as you whip out your perfectly packed, minimalist suitcase, at the ready, with the essentials you need.
My aim is to help you get to that point, one essential item at a time, because if there’s one thing I’ve learned from traveling to 70 countries and being a Suitcase Entrepreneur for 6 years full-time—less is more.
If you’ve ever experienced lugging a giant suitcase behind you on a sandy path to your island resort, or have stood in line at airport security watching a customs officer unpack every single item that took you three hours to squeeze into your bag, you’ll appreciate the skill of packing minimally.
There have been more than a few times where I’ve short changed myself on time and had to pack in a rush to get to the airport. What’s helpful is that I don’t have a ton of stuff to pack up when I leave a place. I’ve gotten used to living out of a suitcase and I have smart systems that I follow to make it much easier to organize my life.
Let me share some of those systems with you right now in a helpful guide that anyone can use to pack lighter.
Step 1: Getting Started.
First, consider your destination—will it be summer or winter, humid or wet? This will make a huge difference to what you need to take.
I recommend getting your suitcase out and placing it open on your bed. Open your wardrobe and pull out what you’d like to take with you.
Once you’ve laid out what you want to take, get ruthless and remove any ‘extra’ items you’ve put in that you think you might need. Usually this is the fifth dress, the seventh t-shirt, or the extra pair of shoes or shorts.
If you’re not good at this, bring in some help. Ask your friends, family, your partner, or someone else who will say “no”, even when you put up a fight: “Do you really think I’m going to need or wear this?”
At this stage, keep in mind that you will end up wearing your same favorite outfits over and over again, much like you do in everyday life. This is an important key to packing light.
Repeat this step one or two times always looking for ‘extras’ that have made their way into your piles. Trust me, you’ll be amazed at what you really don’t need to pack.
Step 2: Packing Your Suitcase.
I have loads of tips I’ve learned over the years and I’ve included the best of them in my book, The Suitcase Entrepreneur: Create Freedom In Business and Adventure in Life.
I dive deeper into not only what to pack, but the benefits of minimalism, what happens after you arrive at a destination, and the best ways to acclimate to your new environment.
For now though, let’s concentrate on some simple rules that will make your packing experience that much easier.
- Take one outfit that you can wear in a casual situation, one for business attire (if your trip isn’t purely for pleasure), one that makes you feel pretty, sexy, or handsome, and one that’s comfy for traveling.
- Make sure you can throw all these items together in a washing machine without any drama.
- Choose fabrics that don’t need to be ironed—that you can roll up in your suitcase and will stay relatively crease free.
- Linen and rayon are not your travel friends. Wool (and knit fabrics in general) and synthetics work great.
- Use travel size containers for skincare, creams, and gels. Or buy travel size kits at the airport or pharmacy. This reduces weight and space dramatically.
As you pack your suitcase or bag of choice, ask yourself the following question: Do I have room to buy stuff and fit more things in while traveling or is it crammed to the brim already?
If you have no space and it’s really heavy, take it all out and eliminate more items. You rarely wear everything you take with you and if you do need anything else, you can almost always buy it in the destination you’re going to.
A few exceptions here:
- Quality shoes. Especially if you have a very small or large foot.
- Sunscreen. Oddly this is one item that can be really expensive even in poorer countries, and the types of spectrum and quality are often limited.
- Medical supplies. Bring your medicines with you in case you can’t get a prescription, as well as contact lens solutions and a basic first aid kit never goes amiss.
- Electronic supplies. Cords and cables for your specialist equipment if it can’t be easily replaced.
- A dry bag. Useful for putting in the electronics or other valuables, and doubling as a small day bag on trips when you don’t want your items to get wet.
Step 3: Traveling with a Carry-On Only.
If you’re going away for a short period of time, from a few days to a few weeks, you definitely want to consider a carry-on only.
There is nothing better than arriving at the airport knowing you don’t need to check in your luggage or spend ages waiting for it at the luggage carousel at your destination.
It’s also incredibly freeing to travel light and know you can pick it up and take it with you anywhere, with a baggage weight that’s completely manageable and doesn’t leave you in a sweat if you have to lift it a lot or are in a rush.
For most of my travels I had a check in bag simply because my suitcase was my home, but when I traveled through Asia and South America for 6-8 weeks, I happily used a carry-on bag only.
If this seems unbelievable to you, here are my key tips (a few are gender-specific) to help you learn how to travel in a carry-on bag only:
- Don’t skimp on your choice of luggage. Rimowa and Samsonsite, in my opinion, are the best. Yes, they’re expensive but they also weigh next to nothing, versus cheaper bags that already have added 6kg to your weight before you’ve even put anything in them.
- Choose a soft bag or super flexible materials with wheels. They will be lighter, more flexible, and easier to fit in the overhead locker on the plane, train, or bus.
- Bags with expandable sections are fantastic if you’re traveling light to your destination but planning to come back with some gifts.
- Bags with a separate compartment to stow your electronics for easy access are great at security and saving you time.
- Forget being fashionable and wear your walking, running, or hiking shoes on the plane. They’re not only super comfortable (especially when your feet swell up on long flights), but they’re also the bulkiest and often heaviest items. Take one pair of dressy shoes (yes ONE), one pair of sandals you can dress up or down, and one flip flops/ jandals for the beach and beyond.
- Make lightweight and economical choices. If you’re heading to colder climates, it’s all about layering—lots of light layers to stay warm and dry, without adding bulk weight to your suitcase or bag.
- You never want to run out of clean underwear, so wash them in the shower at night with travel size soap paper (it lathers up but isn’t a liquid) and hang up to dry.
- If your suitcase doesn’t have a compartment for underwear, buy a small mesh bag or use your dry bag to put them. It’s way easier to find them all in one place.
- Roll clothes rather than pack them flat as they take up less space and don’t come out as creased.
- Don’t take physical books with you. Download your favorite ones to a Kindle and read to your heart’s content.
Step 4: Your Essentials Pre-Flight Checklist
Now that you have a better idea of what you’re going to pack, it’s a good idea to get a few things in order and prepare the basics.
The only thing you really need is your passport and wallet and you can go anywhere. But for some people that’s just too little.
Consider the following before you travel:
- What Visa requirements will you need and how far in advance should you apply for one?
- Do you need to get a series of vaccinations before you head into the jungle or off into the outback?
- Is the time of year you’re considering going a monsoon season or will it be sweltering hot in your chosen destination?
- What are the basic costs of living there, and does that fit within your budget?
If you could only take the bare minimum, then these are the essentials you’d want to pack:
- Passport and Visas
- Vaccinations, medications
- Health and/or travel insurance
- Local currency, extra cash, and credit card(s)
- Copies of all important documents (online and paper)
At the end of the day, the whole reason for your travel is the experiences you will have and the memories that will last a lifetime. Packing lighter will make that happen more often.
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To find even more tips and ideas about packing lightly and traveling more, check out Natalie Sisson. To make it easy, she has included a full packing checklist in her book and free Companion Course. Head to http://ift.tt/2wAsoNj to get them both! You can also find her list of favorite websites to make traveling easier.
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Inspiring Simplicity. Weekend Reads.
Fill your life with stories to tell, not stuff to show.
The simplicity/minimalism movement is a beautiful community. And I enjoy any opportunity to promote writing that encourages people to live more by owning less.
So fix yourself a nice warm cup of coffee or tea. Find a quiet moment this weekend. And enjoy some encouraging words to inspire more simplicity in your life today.
Your Wants Are Out of Control | Sky Patterson by Sky Patterson. Very few admit to being materialistic…
Minimalism: The Lean Life | Mnmlist by Leo Babauta. In my experience, living a leaner life leads to greater freedom, lightness, happiness and peace.
Becoming A Minimalist Is (Literally) Saving My Sanity | Scary Mommy by Jorrie Varney. A collection of things isn’t necessarily bad, but for me, things began to take over my life.
How A Shopping Break Can Redraw The Line Between Want And Need | The Good Trade by Sophie Benson. Shopping is so entrenched in our culture that the lines between want and need have become blurred.
‘Distraction From Happiness’ | InForum by Alexandra Floersch. I attended middle school and high school in North Dakota—just south of Fargo. Here’s a fun little interview I just did with the hometown newspaper.
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🚩 One Surprising Reason Recruiters Aren’t Responding To Your Job Applications
Recruiters can only respond to your email if they actually get it.
One of the most frustrating things about the job search process is the uncertainty. What's it going to take to find that next job? How long will it take? And so on.
There's a particular kind of uncertainty that drives job seekers crazy: not getting a response from recruiters.
When I ask my readers what their biggest job search challenge is, this problem comes up again and again-
- “not hearing back”
- “I have sent some CVs out but haven't gotten responses.”
- “The biggest problem I have is getting responses to my job applications.”
I used to get so many complaints about this that I once blogged An Open Letter to the Recruiters of the World From Job Seekers Everywhere, and that was just to get recruiters to auto-respond to job applications.
If you're like most job seekers, you are probably more likely to be bothered about the lack of recruiter response than you are about getting rejected. Crazy but true.
Here's the thing though-
That lack of response is often because of something you did: sending an email job application that was automatically flagged as spam.
You get aggravated by not hearing back, but the recruiter never even saw your email, and good luck getting them to check their spam folder when you have no better way of contacting them directly.
Stop shooting yourself in the foot.
Here's what you can to do to increase your chances of getting to recruiter inboxes. And you'll see how I also have to do better.
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A) Blacklist check
If your job search email address is from Gmail, Yahoo or Outlook, you can skip this tip and go on to the next one, but pay attention if your email address is from your own personal website or any kind of organization (your current employer?) that regularly sends marketing emails such as client newsletters.
Email spam being the massive problem that it is, companies and others have compiled blacklists of mail servers that are being used for spamming. Spam filters then check incoming email against those blacklists.
If you're sending email from a blacklisted server, your email will be flagged as spam and the recruiter will never see it.
Use a free tool such as MX Toolbox's Email Blacklist Check to quickly check over 100 different blacklists for the mail server used to send your email:
Running the check will generate a list of results. If all goes well, you should a lot of green OKs like this:
However, if you see any red LISTED results, consider getting a different job search email address before applying for any more jobs over email.
You can also compare your results with another tool such as IsnotSPAM.
B) Score how spammy your job application emails are
A email blacklist check is just one kind of anti-spam tool you can use. Another kind will take your email and score it according to how likely it is to be considered spammy by spam filters, such as Mail-tester.com.
Before emailing a recruiter, send your job application email – the actual email you were planning to send – to a unique mail-tester.com email address shown on their homepage:
Next, click “Then Check Your Score” and Mail-tester gets to work scoring your email:
When it's done, your final results will show where your score lost points:
Clicking any line in the report will provide details. You can actually see my results here.
For this test, I simply forwarded a recent newsletter I'm subscribed to, which means that their message “contains errors”.
More importantly:
Argh! My email server is on 3 blacklists!
It's only 3 lists out of 21 checked, so I should be ok, but it's still worth trying to do better. I want to be sure my email will always get to where I want it to.
C) Avoid doing things like a spammer
Spam filters use many rules to score your email in deciding if it's spam or not, just like Mail-tester above.
SpamAssassin, one of the most popular spam filtering programs out there, provides tips on their official website on how legitimate email senders like you can get your non-spam email past their filters.
Based on those tips, here are some of the most common things you should avoid in your emails to potential employers:
1) Email priority
If you're using Outlook or another email program that lets you set priorities, don't set your message to high priority/importance. Classic spammer tactic to make their junk stand out in an inbox.
2) BCC
Don't send your job application to multiple employers by using the BCC (blind carbon copy) option.
If blindly emailing different people the same generic message isn't spam, what is?
3) Subject lines
Don't leave your email subject lines blank. That screams ‘spam!'
A subject with an exclamation point can also look spammy, especially when together with a question mark.
If you need ideas for your great subject lines, there are so many good ways to fill them.
4) Email content
Don't address the recipient with a “Dear Madam,” “Hi friend,” “Hey girl,” or anything remotely generic. Where job seekers are more likely to trip up is with a “To whom it may concern” or similar, which is just as bad. Do your company research to get a contact name.
Your conversations with recruiters often start with an email cover letter, and that shouldn't include any special formatting or attention-getting design using colors and images.
You definitely don't want to use any spammy language such as “urgent reply needed”, even if you clearly do want a response asap. Even mentioning sums of money, such as how much you earned for a past boss, can look spammy.
5) Attachments
Some experts recommend not attaching your resume but it really is common practice. However, stick to safe file formats such as PDF, RTF or DOCX as opposed to any kind of compressed file (ZIP, TAR, RAR).
There's no reason your resume should be larger than 1 MB (and even that's quite large for a 1-2 page document) and large attachments will look suspicious.
6) Marketing email tools
In How These Smart Job Seekers Used Blogging To Find Jobs, I compiled case studies of job seekers who used a blog to find a job.
Many of them were in the marketing industry and mentioned how they used professional marketing tools as part of their “job search campaigns”.
If you're also thinking of being creative and e.g. using marketing email tools to spam mass email recruiters, your emails will have a much higher chance of being flagged as spam unless you know what you're doing. Be careful.
Finally, you can test all these tips but by checking what's in your own spam folder.
What other experts are saying
Question of the article
Has a recruiter ever told you that your resume was caught in their spam folder? Have any other spam story? Tell us in the comments.
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“Does It Spark Joy?” Is the Wrong Decluttering Question
When decluttering expert Marie Kondo published her ground-breaking book, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, hordes of grateful, stuff-encumbered readers around the world seized particularly on her question “Does it spark joy?”
That was the criterion Kondo proposed for deciding whether to keep something. Does an item in your possession give you a little thrill when you hold it in your hands? If so, hang on to it. If not, then So long, mustard-colored cardigan with the leather buttons.
Suddenly, it seemed like everyone who was flirting with the notion of decluttering their homes began talking about joy-sparks. Surely, in Kondo’s simple question was the razor to slice through indecision about what to keep and what to toss when pursuing a simpler lifestyle.
End of story. Or is it?
Let me begin by saying that, to me, any voice calling us to own fewer possessions is a welcome voice.
In America, we consume twice as many material goods as we used to 50 years ago. Over the same period, the size of the average American home has nearly tripled, and today that average home contains about 300,000 items.
Most homes contain more televisions than people. About 25 percent of two-car garages don’t have room to park even one car inside them, and still one out of every 11 American households rents off-site storage—the fastest-growing segment of the commercial real estate industry over the past four decades. Meanwhile, home organization, trying to find places for all our excess belongings, is now an $8 billion industry.
We’re at material overload and it isn’t fun like it looks in the commercials.
We live in a society where families are chronically stressed, tired, and rushed, with our excessive possessions compounding (if not creating) the problems. IKEA chief Steve Howard may have let a secret slip when he said that in the western world we’ve reached “peak home furnishings.”
The de-clutter, de-own movement is rapidly catching on, as evidenced, for example, by the popularity of Tiny Houses and the growth of organizations such as the National Association of Professional Organizers and the National Association of Senior Move Managers.
My family became converts to minimalism in 2008 after I wasted a beautiful Saturday morning cleaning out my garage, and a neighbor, seeing my frustration, made the casual comment “Maybe you don’t need to own all that stuff.” As I surveyed the heap of dusty things piled up in my driveway, out of the corner of my eye I noticed my son playing alone on the swing set in the backyard. And right then I had a life-changing realization:
Excess possessions do not bring extra happiness into life; even worse, they distract us from the things that do!
Today we live in a smaller house with only a third of the possessions we used to have. And we couldn’t be happier now that we have more money, more time, and more energy for the things that matter most.
Along the way, I’ve seen how Kondo’s trademark filter has prompted significant decluttering efforts both here and abroad. I’m thankful for that. Yet I can’t help but bristle at the phrasing because the question “Does it spark joy?” may actually rob tidying up of its fullest potential in our lives.
Specifically, we get three things wrong when we evaluate our possessions only by asking whether they spark joy or not.
1. We place our own happiness above everything else and continue to define it in terms of our possessions. Unfortunately, when the predominant question in our mind is “Does this make me happy?” we routinely fall short of actually realizing our happiness. In fact, recent research points to the biological fact that the best way to discover happiness is to help bring it about in someone else’s life.
2. Kondo’s suggested focus does not cull our consumeristic tendencies. Owning less is great, but wanting less is even better. Once we overcome the pull of consumption in our lives, we are free to pursue other passions. Unfortunately, the question “Does it spark joy?” does little to rewire our thinking in that regard. After all, when we’re standing in the department store, many things we pick up spark joy. That’s why we leave with so many of them in our shopping carts.
3. The filter may improve the peacefulness of our surroundings, but it does little to bend the trajectory of our lives. It rarely causes us to evaluate the motivations within that caused the clutter to build in the first place. And when we do not diagnose the cause of our clutter problem, we are bound to repeat it.
So let me propose an alternative question for us to ask ourselves when we’re making the hold/release call on any particular item in our possession. Rather than asking, “Does it spark joy?” let’s begin asking:
Does it help me fulfill a greater purpose with my life?
As I see it, we should be thinking about not just what we own but why we want to own it. What is our goal in life, anyway? What are we hoping to accomplish?
Sure, some people may only be interested in the pursuit of personal pleasure by acquiring as much stuff as possible, but I believe they represent a small minority. Instead, most of us desire to make a selfless contribution of some kind to a world that’s swelling with needs.
Two years ago, my wife, Kim, and I created a nonprofit called The Hope Effect that is changing orphan care by providing solutions that mimic the family. We would never have pursued this interest of ours if minimalism hadn’t freed up the time and money to do it. I’d still be spending my Saturdays cleaning and organizing. But today our lives are permanently different, and so are the lives of a growing number of parentless children around the world.
Orphan care is not everybody’s passion. But whatever others feel they were put on the planet to do, some of their possessions are either directly or indirectly helping them accomplish it, while others are holding them back. It makes the best sense to keep what aligns with their goal in life and get rid of the rest.
So when you’re holding one of your possessions in your hands, ask yourself, Does it help me fulfill my purpose? Does it help me craft a lifestyle in which I am able to build relationships and care for others, or might I be able to use my time, money, and energy in better ways?
Clear away obstacles one by one. Then advance toward your goal.
There’s a big difference between tidying up your home and freeing up your life. Instead of merely sparking some joy within yourself, light a fire in the world.
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👉 One Handy Job Interview Technique You Need to Master
Start your first impressions with a good first impression.
Have you ever noticed this?
People shake hands all the time. Unless your handshake is particularly bad, people will rarely react negatively to it and they'll ignore the occasional jitter or semi-clasp. On the other hand (pun intended), if your handshake is particularly good, you will stand out and people will remember you.
But here's the kicker:
When it comes to job interviews, the opposite is actually true.
A 2008 University of Iowa study showed what you may have already suspected:
a firm, solid handshake is an important part of a successful job interview, while a dead fish can end the interview before it even begins
Put differently, while a basic handshake is expected and won't stand out, a bad handshake can ruin everything.
Ultimately, since a handshake is such a common thing, expectations are relatively low. That also means you can easily achieve good results.
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The Best Handshake Ever?
My secret handshake is just me high-fiving my dog.
— Jawbreaker (@sixfootcandy) September 1, 2017
A friend of mine has the best handshake in the world.
No, really.
The first time I met him and we shook hands, I was literally wowed.
Here's what made his handshake so great (over-detailed analysis coming up…):
1. Softness
Nobody likes shaking hands with sandpaper. Although you don't necessarily need to carry around a bottle of hand moisturizer, at least make sure that your hands aren't rough to the touch. Introduce coconut oil into your diet somehow.
2. Moisture
Without being sandpaper, your hands should be dry and not sweaty or clammy. Let them air out.
3. Temperature
Your hands should be warm, not cold.
4. Texture
Do you like shaking hands with someone's scabs or callouses? Enough said.
5. No bandages or casts
You don't want people to think they might hurt you by shaking your hand.
6. Clean
The only thing worse than worrying about hurting someone's hand is worrying about catching a virus from it like warts, a cold, etc. Even feeling just one Band-Aid is discomforting.
7. Few rings to none
The fewer rings there are, the less chance of pinching and hurting someone's hand.
8. Confident reach
Don't wait for someone's hand to come to yours, reach for theirs and meet it.
9. Good timing
Lock hands without any jitters or fumbling, sliding one hand into the other. Don't aim to grasp fingers, aim for the palm.
10. Perfect position
Aim for the webbing of your hand (skin between thumb and forefinger) to catch the webbing of their hand. Thanks to David Tra for pointing that out.
11. Solid grasp
Everyone hates the dreaded “dead fish” where someone leaves a limp hand in yours. Do the opposite; clutch the palm without squeezing so hard that it becomes painful for the other.
12. Positive
Grin or smile while shaking hands.
13. Be sincere
Don't just grin or smile, do it like you mean it. A fake smile ruins the whole effect.
14. Look them in the eye
The best way to prove you're being sincere.
15. Shake source
“Shake from the elbow, and not from the shoulder,” says international etiquette expert, Denise Zaldivar.
16. Shake method
“Aim for 2 pumps when shaking,” Denise also recommends.
17. Shake vigor
Don't shake too vigorously, but don't let them shake your whole arm either.
18. Know when to let go
A good shake usually involves a palm squeeze and release, but be careful if the other person is too quick or too slow, which could lead to an awkward moment. Instead, with a confident reach, be first to engage and disengage.
19. Synchs with your personal brand
For most people, this just means following all the previous points to being a handshaking professional, but for some people this means having a unique handshake or one that's more in tune with their profession. If a clown always shook hands in a serious way, you'd wonder about his sense of humor.
20. Memorable
So few people do this that if anyone ever impresses you with their handshake, you won't forget them just like with my friend above. If your handshake is memorable, it is successfully building your personal brand.
21. Viral
Not in a bad way… this whole article came about because my friend's handshake was so terrific I had to tell you about it.
Bonus tip
22. Encourages loyalty
A great handshake is one that makes people want to shake your hand again. For that, they'll need to have you around them again.
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What was the best or worst handshake you've ever felt? Or, do you have a job interview handshake memory to share? Tell us in the comments.
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